How to listen carefully?
Listening carefully means listening with full attention or concentration. It is one of the most important qualities of a person. This quality creates a huge difference between ordinary means and extraordinary means. Furthermore, this quality creates a feeling of trust for the communicator. He feels the worth of his words.
Everybody is born with a natural quality of listening. For listening carefully, there are three steps: patience, inner emotional strength and openness. Patience is a sense that you are not bored. Emotional strength means you are emotionally balanced. Openness means you are active and happy.
Here are the benefits of carefully listening.
Effective Communication:
It is the part of communication skill which shows you are a good listener. A good listener is also a good speaker. A man without listening skill can not speak effectively. It is a famous quote that first understands then to be understood.
Better argument:
If you listen better chances are that you can argue better. You can also feel well. You can seek flaws in another argument.. In this way you can inspire other with good arguments.
Subconscious image
Our body language speaks a lot. Study shows we communicate 55% through our body language. When we listen carefully a subconscious message goes to another person Which says the listener is a very care and sympathetic person. He listens carefully and speaks impressively. He makes his eye contact and reply in good manners.
Strong relationship
A careful listener always make good relationships. Because he gains the trust of another person. He also knows when to speak and when to remain silent. He knows what to speak and what to not speak. These things improve his quality of relationship. And image.
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