Life is short and every one must write a purpose and follow the purpose. You should set a goal of success and not listen to naysayers. Time is short and every one has good wishes and desires. So do not spend very much time on throwing stones or disgrace others. Every one has limits and limited abilites and do not go beyond your limits. Only you can do this. Live happy by keeping others happy. Be a person every one will like you and no body denies you. You are the heroes of game and you are the champion of games. Only you can do this.