Generally two question are raised in classess or on other places. One success is not an accdent and other success is not an incident. The need of the time is to understand the principle. First seek to understand then to be understood. This principle is the key of interpersonal communication. The real key to your influence is your actual conduct. Let me tell you some of the examples. Reading and writing are both forms of communication. Reading can not win and writing can not surpass writing. Your effectiveness is critical until you succeed in a way which is not given. Create a clear and mutual understanding of what you want. If you want good you can create good and if you want evil you will create evil in the world. Identify the parameteres through which you will pass. You see some people join jobs in the world, some join a small business and people are living from hand to mouth. That is the reason they could not create the success. But you have to create the success. F...